Address the signs you missed before.

Many couples believe that the absence of a crisis is a sign that a marriage is healthy. But couples need to regularly check in with each other and ask the hard questions, such as, “How do you feel about us?” and “What am I doing that hurts or bothers you?” The unity within a marriage was intended to be a home base for our feelings and souls, and while the truth may be uncomfortable, your commitment for pursuing it will be valuable to the investment in your partner.